Her Dating Diary

Not every relationship struggle is a sign of incompatibility or lack of love. Sometimes, what feels like forgetfulness, mood swings, or lack of attention might be something deeper like undiagnosed ADHD. ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) isn’t just about being hyper or distracted as many people assume. It often shows up in emotional patterns, communication … Read more

It’s easy to think relationships only end because of the big things. The dramatic betrayals that shatter trust in an instant, the explosive arguments that leave an emotional shrapnel embedded in both of you for months afterward or the unforgivable moments that clearly mark a “before” and “after” in your story together. But the truth … Read more

You don’t want to believe it. And you’ve tried not to overthink it. But something’s changed between you. The warmth you used to feel in their presence has started fading like a sunset giving way to night. The connection that once felt unbreakable now seems fragile, distant, almost like trying to hold water in your … Read more

Let’s be honest about something that has kept many of us staring at our phones, typing and deleting messages, second guessing ourselves in an endless mental tug of war. “Should I text him first?” “Will I look too eager or desperate?” “Should I wait for him to show he’s interested?” “Does making the first move … Read more

You tell yourself he’s just “busy” when he disappears for days without a text, leaving you checking your phone with a mixture of hope and anxiety that has become your constant companion. You convince yourself he “didn’t mean it like that” when his words left you feeling small, insignificant, or suddenly uncertain in a relationship … Read more

He liked me in a casual, comfortable way that never quite crossed into commitment. He talked to me when it was convenient, sharing parts of his life that made me feel special but not special enough to be a part of his whole life. He checked in just often enough to keep me hopeful that … Read more

You know that moment when you see a couple and think, “How did she get so lucky?” The kind of relationship where he looks at her like she hung the moon, not because she’s perfect, but because he genuinely sees her. Where he supports her dreams as fiercely as his own. Where the respect between … Read more

If he says he’s not ready for a relationship but still wants to talk, let’s unpack what he’s actually telling you. He says he’s not ready, but he keeps texting. He compliments you, he checks in and maybe even flirts a little. So naturally, you wonder… “If he truly didn’t want me, why won’t he … Read more

You’re not unhappy. But you’re not really happy either. That space between misery and joy has become your comfort zone – familiar enough that you’ve stopped questioning it. You keep telling yourself, “No one is perfect,” as if that explains away the hollow feeling in your chest when you think about your future together. “This … Read more